The Adult Boy

"Hey everyone, welcome back to the Black Bunny channel! This is the very first installment of a series I like to call ‘The Adult Boy Chronicles.’ And trust me, it’s about to get real. Today, I’m talking about a situation that a lot of you might relate to: dealing with a guy who’s basically an adult boy. 

So in this vlog, I’m breaking down the dynamic of that relationship—what it taught me, how it opened my eyes, and why I’m stepping away from those kinds of distractions. We’re going to talk about setting boundaries, recognizing when someone’s just not on your level, and choosing yourself first. So grab a seat and let’s dive in, because this is about owning your story and moving forward as a true Femme Fatale."

The Adult Boy 

Letting Go of Relationships That Hold You Back

In every woman's journey, there comes a time when we meet someone who looks grown but acts like they’re still figuring out life from a teenager’s perspective. Let’s call them the “adult boys.” You know the type: charming, full of potential, always around for the fun times, but never quite stepping up to the plate when real life calls.

This article is a reflection on my own experience with one such relationship. It’s about recognizing when someone is more of a distraction than a partner, and why it’s so important to let go of connections that aren’t helping you grow.

In my case, I was dealing with someone who was sweet, sure, but couldn’t offer the kind of support, ambition, or stability that I needed. It was a classic “adult boy” scenario: lots of good intentions, plenty of charm, but no real follow-through. And let’s be honest, when you’re building your empire and focusing on becoming your own success story, you need partners, not projects.

So, this is about setting boundaries and understanding that it’s okay to walk away from relationships that aren’t aligned with your goals. It’s about embracing your inner Femme Fatale—strong, self-assured, and unafraid to choose yourself first.

In the end, letting go of an “adult boy” isn’t about bitterness or blame; it’s about making room for the kind of partnerships that truly uplift you. So here’s to growth, to choosing your own path, and to never settling for anything less than what you deserve.